Let's Get It On!

Marvin Gaye said it best its time to get it on yall...But question, how much sex is enough sex...once a week, once a month, every day, several times a day?  Oh you say you're getting older and you notice a change in your sex drive? Men we all know that sex for women usually start once we're reminded of it so go ahead and touch your woman.  Well you may be surprised to know that it may not all be physical, and it may not be just the women over 40. For example is it hormonal? Testosterone which is produced in the ovaries is known to stimulate the area of the brain that's associated with sexual desire. The problem is as a result of the body's natural aging process those levels of testerone dwindles. It is at its peak around 20 but significantly drops by age 40. Some of the non physical factors that can lurk in the bedroom may include but are not limited to stress, financial difficulty (aka when my $ ain't right my p&*%y don't work LOL), relationship difficulty etc. Whatever the problem is one thing is for sure you'd better do something, and fast. So what's a woman to do? Well a few ideas that may jumpstart the party range from introducing toys, and testosterone creams to KY's new "Intense" Line and even Tantric Sex stimulation....hmmmm who knew? Well now you do. Keep in mind whatever you decide it could ultimately enhance your romance or at least make you feel like a woman, alive.

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Why won't he commit? 10 reasons why he won't stay

The list could go on for days but I've taken a moment to give "somebody" some  insight on why he won't stay. I'm sure there are many more reasons but here's a start.


1. He doesn't have to, you'll be there.
2. Its just in his nature.
3. He's never committed to anything or anybody in his lifetime.
4. You haven't demanded it.
5. Too many automatums.
6. He's really not that into you
7. You don't feed him (and I'm not just talking about food)
8. "You're" indecisive/inconsistent
9. You don't take care of your business. (the kids, the house, pay bills on time)
10. He's immature.

Remember it starts with you love yourself, and learn yourself....show your confidence not your cleavage and perhaps he'll reconsider...but if he doesn't this to shall pass!